I've been waiting for about three days and no validation email. Only email I can get is to reset the pass but still can log in

I remember seeing your name in the Member list, but it's not there now. Our server lost some data from the past few days, which is probably why your info isn't there. We are currently on automatic validation, so you should get your validation e-mail in a short period of time. Please try to register again and it should work this time. Sorry for the inconvenience